Christmas Traditions

Ah, traditions! They give us comfort, build memories, and help us pass down our family values and beliefs. They SHOULD help our families grow stronger in the vision and faith God has given through our husbands and fathers.

However so often we just continue these "traditions" without

evaluating them; sometimes we even dread following through with a tradition (sometimes even knowing full well that the rest of the family is dreading it as well), but going through with it every year. We need to stop and evaluate each of these traditions, with the help of our husbands. This time of celebrating the birth of our Savior should not be one filled with stress and anxiety, but one of peace, joy, love and laughter; giving glory to HIM!

About three years ago we were expecting a baby (Miss J) soon after Christmas. We knew we needed to scale down Christmas so that I (and the rest of the family) would not be burned out and exhausted just in time for a new baby. This caused us to really look at what we wanted to do with our time. We had to say "no" both to ourselves and to others. We cut back on some of the "traditional" things we did and enjoyed a slower paced holiday season.

We've learned from that season and continue to evaluate each activity ahead of time (if possible) and as they come up. It helped us last year when Miss C was still a newborn (about 6 weeks) for her first Christmas, as I recovered from the birth, and we adjusted to another bundle of joy. It also allows us to follow where God leads and not be in bondage to the plans of our hearts.

"In his heart a man plans his course, but the LORD determines his steps." Proverbs 16:9

Happy Thanksgiving!

We have so much to be thankful for! God is good!

Have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

Simplifying

We've been working on clarifying the goals and direction of our family. We're trying to get a better vision of where God is leading us, and how we can best "glorify and enjoy Him." We have continually seen the need to learn to be content and focus not on the things of the world but on what God's Word says is important. In an effort to journal the simplifying part of this (and get some accountability too ;)) I'm going to start a series of blog posts on "Keeping (or getting) it simple". I hope it will also be an encouragement to others. I'd also love to hear what you are doing in these areas or your ideas.

I'm going to start with posts on how we keep Christmas simple including traditions, Homeschooling through the holidays, Decor, cooking/baking, and gifts. These are things we do that help us enjoy the season as a family and keep the focus on why we are celebrating Christmas.

Thanksgiving party!

I'm going to link this post to Raising Olives, another blogger I enjoy who is part of the "4 moms, 35 kids" group.

We had a Thanksgiving party today for the kids. We've done this several times in years past, and my kids always enjoy having their friends over to have their own celebration. This year there were 10 kids at the party (we just invited one other family) ages 10, 8, 7, 5, 5, 4, 2, 2, 1, and 1! We've enjoyed getting to know this family over the last few months, and we are happy to find any excuse to get together with them!

We started out by reading a short Thanksgiving board book "The Story of Thanksgiving"; it is one of my favorites. It covers the basics and holds the attention of the little ones.

I found some leftover Pilgrim and Indian hat craft sets in my Thanksgiving Decor bin, so we used those this year. As in years past, we had more Indians than Pilgrims this year (only one Pilgrim). The kids had fun putting them together, but these required too much help and did not hold so well (maybe there was a reason they were still hiding in the bin?). Next time we will do something else.We sat down to a Thanksgiving "kids feast" with Turkey sandwiches (and PBJ also), pumpkin muffins, craisens, orange cranberry bread, cheese, and apple juice.

After lunch I popped some popcorn for dessert and had the kids watch the Peanuts Thanksgiving DVD while the moms had a chance to visit. I was surprised the first time we watched the Peanuts Thanksgiving DVD, they worked in so many facts about the voyage and early struggles, but kept it very interesting for the children.

I like doing parties like this. When I keep them simple they are fun and relaxing for me, and everyone still has a great time. What my kids enjoy most is just getting to spend some extra time with their friends, throwing in a couple of spacial foods and a simple craft just helps remind them of the special season we are celebrating.

Thanksgiving

We're just under a week from Thanksgiving! A couple of my favorite blogs are part of the "4 moms, 35 kids" group and they are doing a link-up for sharing Thanksgiving recipes, decor, etc. so I thought I would share and link-up too! I'll link up to Kim at Life In a Shoe for today.

I enjoy decorating for holidays, it helps us all to remember what celebration is coming up and be celebrating through the whole season. However, I don't want that decor to be expensive, cumbersome, or intrusive. I keep it simple. I have a couple of groupings of candles and gourds(fake) in our living room, along with the autumn toys.

Our table has an autumn table cloth.

I have napkins that match and/or blend well with the table cloth. I need to keep an eye out for more napkins though.

The table cloth and napkins are a great visual, but don't clutter our table and get in the way. I love that my dishes go with any season/holiday, this helps keep things simple, but still allows me to enjoy decorating my table. Sometimes candles make it on the table too, but usually once you get all of us around the table with the serving dishes there is no room for decor. Besides, all of my little blessings are the best decor!

For several years we have been doing a "Thanksgiving tree". This year the kids took over doing it! Miss E made the tree for us and hung it on the door. We try to remember to write something we are thankful for on a leaf at least once a day. We always do it as a group; once someone remembers to do it.

One of my favorite Thanksgiving/holiday dishes is the Yams that I make every year. We call them Dessert disguised as a side dish!

Our Favorite Yams

2 lg. cans of yams/sweet potatoes (or bake 4-5 fresh ones, which is what I do)

1 tsp. vanilla

1/2 cup sugar

1/3 cup melted butter (I use coconut oil)

2 eggs

Mix in a bowl and pour into a 9x13 pan. Top with topping (recipe follows) and cook at 350 for 30 min.

Topping

1 cup brown sugar

1/3 cup shredded coconut

1/2 cup chopped pecans

1/3 cup soft butter

Cut all together until blended well. Sprinkle on top of yams.

How do they know?

The other day Miss C spotted the "American Girl" catalog on the couch and made it clear that she would like to look at it. She spent at least 10 minutes looking at the pictures of bitty baby. At one year old how does she already have such a love for babies and all things girly?

Answer? God made her that way! We see in the Bible that men and women are made to fill different roles, and it is when we are filling those roles that we are most fulfilled. I've loved watching this play out in my children, and Rob and I are enjoying learning and growing through teaching our children about their God given roles!

*By the way, this does not mean that I don't think that boys should not learn how to cook and do the laundry, or that girls have no need to learn about cars and shooting guns etc. These things have their place, but within their God given roles.

Sick

We've had a stomach virus in the house for about a week now. :( The first to be hit by it were Mr. S, Miss E and Mr. M, all in the same night. They are great sick kids though, and so it was a relatively easy night, considering.

Two days later Miss J came down with it. We are constantly marveling at how mature she is for only being 2 (and 3/4). She was so sweet even as she was sick. It was a joy and a pleasure to care for her through most of the night (though I would have been happy to skip it). We set her up on the landing upstairs in front of our TV, she watched her favorite movies- Chitty Chitty Bang Bang, and Seven Brides for Seven Brothers- and drifted off to sleep regularly. Rob took over her care in the wee hours of the morning so I could get a bit more sleep.

Now its our turn. Yep, mommy and daddy are sick at the same time. Here is where we are seeing the pay off of the time and energy we have put into having our kids along side us most of the time; training them and teaching them. Miss E jumped right in to get snacks and then dinner. We did not even have to ask her, what a blessing! The older boys helped out quite a bit too. Miss J was the first to notice I was sick and took it upon herself to care for me. She was so sweet, and truly a blessing to me!

Miss C has been improving on her blanket time, and this came in very handy today. She was happy to sit on her blanket playing with her doll while I laid on the couch watching her (the big kids were making dinner). How nice to have a way to keep a one-year-old out of trouble, but still hanging out with the rest of the family!